Trust and safety
Community Guidelines
This is a community for people who want something real. These are the standards we hold each other to.
Be honest
Use your own recent photos, your real first name and your real age. If you are married or in a relationship, say so.
Be respectful
Members here include mothers, widows, divorced people and people who have waited a long time for the right person. Treat every story with respect. Single mothers are welcome here and their children are part of who they are.
Never ask for money
Asking another member for money, financial assistance, travel money, gift cards or cryptocurrency will get your account removed. There are no exceptions and no second warnings for financial solicitation.
Keep it appropriate
No nudity, no sexual content, no violence, no hate speech, and no content involving children beyond ordinary family photos.
No commercial use
This is not a place to sell, recruit, promote a business or drive traffic elsewhere.
What happens when a rule is broken
Reports are reviewed by our moderation team. Depending on what we find we may issue a warning, remove content, suspend the account or permanently ban the member.